Romans 12:9

Let love be without dissimulation. Abhor that which is evil; cleave to that which is good.

Romans 12:9

Romans 12:9 anchors ethical life in authentic love. “Let love be without dissimulation” translates to sincere, unhypocritical love. Paul contrasts genuine love with the religious or social masks that people wear. In the first-century context, Christians faced pressures from both Jewish and Gentile cultures, with competing values around status, honor, and ritual performance. Dissimulation, deceit, or pretending to care while withholding true concern would fracture the unity Paul has been exhorting in Romans 12:3–8. The command to “abhor that which is evil; cleave to that which is good” places the reader at a moral fork: reject what grieves God and harms neighbors; embrace what aligns with God’s goodness. Love, in this verse, is not a sentimental feeling but a disciplined commitment that reshapes choices, relationships, and communal life. The broader theme in Romans is the transformation of the mind into a life oriented by the gospel; verse 9 points to the posture that must undergird that new life.

Authentic love is foundational to the Christian ethic. Dissimulation undermines trust and undermines the church’s witness in a skeptical world. Abhorring evil and cleaving to good narrate a moral discernment grounded in God’s character. This is not merely personal virtue but communal holiness—how believers distinguish between what degrades people and what elevates them. The verse also highlights the catalyst: love that is sincere leads to moral clarity and decisive action. In Pauline theology, love is the fulfillment of the law (Romans 13:10) and the central evidence of Spirit-led life (1 Corinthians 13). Therefore, the verse calls believers to alignment between affection and action: sincere love that shuns what harms others and embraces what is beneficial for the common good.

Assess your relationships and online conduct: are your expressions of love genuine, or do they carry hidden motives? Practice honesty in how you speak about others; avoid flattery that masks harm. Cultivate discernment about what is evil—hardening toward lies, exploitation, or manipulation—and actively pursue what is good: integrity, generosity, and mercy. In conflict, let love guide your responses; seek reconciliation rather than vindication. Practical habits: pause before posting or speaking to ensure your words are truthful, kind, and constructive. Build communities that celebrate honesty and resist performative care. Think of it in daily routines—choosing to mentor a younger believer, forgiving a debt, or speaking a tough truth with compassion. Let your loves be observable: people should be able to see that you detest injustice and cling to what nourishes life and dignity.

Cross-References: 1 John 3:18; Ephesians 4:15–16; 2 Corinthians 9:7; Colossians 3:14; Titus 3:15

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