Psalms 34:13
Keep thy tongue from evil, and thy lips from speaking guile.
Psalms 34:13
This verse quickly follows the invitation to pursue life by living well, and it zeroes in on a practical aspect: speech. In biblical psychology, the tongue is potent, capable of unveiling wisdom or sowing destruction. The phrase “Keep thy tongue from evil, and thy lips from speaking guile” calls for deliberate self-control in speech. In ancient Near Eastern cultures, words carried immediate social, political, and moral consequences. Speaking deceitfully could ruin reputations, break agreements, and invite divine judgment. The psalmist exhorts to guard speech against “evil”—defined as ill-intentioned talk, slander, manipulation, and grumbling that harms others. The contrast with “guile” (deceit) emphasizes integrity. The context of David’s experiences—danger, fear, and providential deliverance—provides a backdrop: words can either reveal a heart trusting God or a heart anxious and self-protective. The universal register is timeless: our language shapes reality, relationships, and spiritual climate.
Speech is a spiritual discipline in Scripture, tied to discipleship. What we say reveals what we worship and fear. Guarding the tongue demonstrates trust in God’s sovereignty—rather than trying to manipulate outcomes with clever talk. This verse connects with the broader biblical theme that righteous living includes righteous words that build up, heal, and testify to truth. Deceit harms not only others but one’s own soul, eroding trust and inviting God’s displeasure. The verse also ties into the Red Sea and Exodus motifs of deception giving way to truth-telling—ultimately pointing toward Jesus, who embodies truth. In sum, keeping the tongue is more than courtesy; it’s a declaration of allegiance to God’s world-order.
Practice honest, gracious speech. Quick checks: before speaking, ask, “Is this true, kind, and necessary?” If not, pause. In conversations, especially online or in conflicts, aim for statements that reflect truth without accusation. Replace “you always” with “I feel” constructions to reduce defensiveness. Guard against rumor, sarcasm, or gossip that undermines trust at work, church, or family. A practical exercise: commit to a 24-hour period of no harmful words—note what’s left unsaid and how it reshapes relationships. When you slip, apologize briefly and make amends. The goal is not perfection but consistent integrity in speech that honors God and serves others. Consider Scripture as a filter for your words, meditating on passages about the tongue (James 3) and applying them to daily chats, texts, and social posts.
Cross-References: James 3:5-10; Ephesians 4:29; Proverbs 12:18; Colossians 4:6; Proverbs 15:4