Psalms 12:2
They speak vanity every one with his neighbour: with flattering lips and with a double heart do they speak.
Psalms 12:2
“They speak vanity every one with his neighbour: with flattering lips and with a double heart do they speak.” This verse exposes social dynamics of deceit and double-minded speech. Flattery and vanity are tools used to manipulate relationships, gain favor, or silence the vulnerable. The phrase “every one with his neighbour” indicates a pervasive social pattern rather than isolated acts. The “double heart” signals hypocrisy: outward civility paired with inward deceit. In the historical setting, such behavior would corrode trust, making communal life brittle and unjust. The acerbic tone of the psalmist exposes a social critique: integrity cannot thrive where duplicity is normal.
This verse highlights the Bible’s strong stance against deceit and hypocrisy. Flattering speech masks manipulation and undermines authentic relationship with God and neighbor. The contrast between lips that speak falsehood and a heart that acts with integrity points to the need for sincerity—God’s preferred condition for worship and community life. It also foreshadows later biblical warnings against deceit and the call to speak truth in love (Ephesians 4:15).
In everyday life, beware of flattery they cast, or words that sound sweet but hide ill intent. Practice honesty in conversations, especially when giving feedback or addressing conflict. If you encounter someone who speaks kindly to your face while deceiving behind your back, protect yourself by seeking evidence, maintaining boundaries, and addressing the issue with wisdom and gentleness. For leaders, cultivate a culture where truth-telling is valued over flattering compliance.
Cross-References: Proverbs 26:28; Colossians 3:9; James 3:9-12; Luke 6:45; Psalm 15:2