Proverbs 31:28
Her children arise up, and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praiseth her.
Proverbs 31:28
Verse 28 portrays the communal recognition of the virtuous woman: “Her children arise up, and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praiseth her.” It completes the household portrait by showing how a life of wisdom, diligence, and kindness yields living testimony. Children honor their mother when she models care, discipline, and instruction that aligns with God’s ways. A husband’s praise signals partnership and mutual respect within marriage; he recognizes the spouse’s character and contributions. In the broader ancient culture, respect for a wife’s and mother’s role wasn’t assumed; Proverbs elevates these many-valued contributions as praiseworthy. This verse invites readers to see family achievement as communal fruit of faithful living, rather than private virtue alone. It also emphasizes that spiritual leadership in the home includes encouraging and acknowledging a spouse’s virtue publicly or within the family.
Theologically, this verse highlights gratitude as a fruit of wisdom. It affirms that righteousness bears public witness—blessing becomes communal joy when partners recognize each other’s faithful labor. It echoes themes of blessing, reputation, and the fear of the Lord's fruit in households. The verse also underscores the plan of creation in which family units function to nurture virtue across generations, and it reinforces that the wise life effects others in tangible praise.
Practically, cultivate gratitude and public affirmation. If you’re a parent or spouse, verbalize your appreciation often: “I see how you cared for the kids today” or “Thank you for the clear plan you’ve set for dinner and the budget.” For singles or extended families, look for and celebrate the contributions of those who care for others—neighbors, roommates, or aging relatives. Praise grows what you want more of: gently acknowledge effort, highlight character, and give specific examples. In general, a culture of blessing strengthens relationships.
Cross-References: Proverbs 15:23; Proverbs 18:22; 1 Peter 3:7; Colossians 3:19; Proverbs 31:23