Proverbs 31:23
Her husband is known in the gates, when he sitteth among the elders of the land.
Proverbs 31:23
This verse connects the wife’s virtue to her husband’s standing: her husband “is known in the gates, when he sitteth among the elders of the land.” The gates were the civic hub of ancient cities, where judgments, business, and social life occurred. A virtuous woman’s influence helps her husband gain respect in public life. It emphasizes communal recognition as a byproduct of a well-ordered household and a wise partner. The verse portrays marital partnership as a shared enterprise where the wife’s character contributes to the husband’s reputation and leadership.
Marriage as mutual service and communal witness is a consistent biblical theme. A godly household radiates influence for good in the wider community. The verse reinforces the ethic that personal virtue has communal consequences—integrity in the home strengthens public trust, which is essential for just governance and social flourishing.
Practical implications: nurture a healthy partnership, communicate with integrity, and support your spouse’s public roles (work, church, community). Create a home environment that honors commitments, teaches responsibility, and models wise decision-making. If you’re single, consider how your life and character will impact future relationships and community leadership.
Cross-References: Genesis 2:24; Ruth 3:11; 1 Corinthians 7:3-5; Proverbs 11:13; Colossians 3:18-19