Proverbs 31:10

Proverbs 31:10

Verse 10 introduces the celebrated archetype of the virtuous wife: “Who can find a virtuous woman? for her price is far above rubies.” Foundational to Hebrew poetry, this line describes rare virtue—character that outshines wealth and status. The valuation is not merely romantic but moral and practical: a virtuous woman brings strength, wisdom, and steadfast care to the household and community. In Proverbial literature, the “wife of noble character” is the ideal of faithful service, diligence, wisdom, and integrity. The rhetorical question emphasizes rarity, underscoring the preciousness of such virtue in a world where social roles are fragile. The broader poem commends the tireless, capable life of a woman whose actions shape a family’s well-being and reputation.

Theologically, the passage highlights virtue as God-honoring fruitfulness. It reframes feminine strength as essential for the common good, aligning with biblical calls to justice, hospitality, and wise stewardship. The emphasis on intrinsic value—“far above rubies”—affirms that moral character holds greater worth than material wealth. It invites a broader reading: wisdom and virtue are not gendered ideals but universal goods in a community seeking righteousness. The verse also sets a standard that shapes expectations for households, leadership, and communal life, reflecting God’s design for flourishing through diligent, loving labor.

Modern readers can apply this as a celebration and exhortation of virtue in all people, regardless of gender. It encourages cultivating character traits like diligence, prudence, generosity, and courage. In family life, it affirms the invaluable contribution of partners who manage home life, nurture, and provide stability. For communities, it highlights the importance of recognizing and supporting caregivers, mentors, and leaders who invest in others’ well-being. It also invites personal reflection: what is my own “rubies”—my character strengths—that add value to relationships and communities? Practical steps include seeking mentorship, pursuing ongoing education, and practicing generosity with discernment. The verse invites admiration for virtuous living and motivates readers to develop character that blesses others.

Cross-References: Ruth 3:11; Esther 2:17; Proverbs 3:13-18; 1 Peter 3:3-4; Proverbs 31:26