Proverbs 3:18
She is a tree of life to them that lay hold upon her: and happy is every one that retaineth her.
Proverbs 3:18
This verse pictures Wisdom as a “tree of life” for those who lay hold of her, and a source of happiness for those who retain her. In ancient Near Eastern symbolism, the tree of life represents vitality, sustenance, and enduring vitality. To “lay hold” of Wisdom is to seize and adhere to her guidance; to “retain” her is to keep and apply it consistently. The chapter emphasizes the transformative power of Wisdom to provide true nourishment in every season—whether in youth or old age. The imagery would resonate with readers who understood trees as providers of shade, fruit, and security, a vivid metaphor for how Wisdom sustains life when lived in alignment with God’s design.
The tree of life motif points to the divine life at work in creation and its renewal. It echoes Genesis, where access to the tree of life is linked to flourishing. In Proverbs, Wisdom itself becomes the means through which life is sustained. The verse underscores that wisdom’s influence is practical and transformative, not merely theoretical. It invites believers to trust that ongoing obedience cultivates a durable, joyful life and that such a life is blessed by God.
In everyday terms, Wisdom acts as your life support. Practically, this could mean choosing honest, patient communication in relationships; planning finances with generosity; and cultivating habits that promote health and stewardship. For parents, teaching children to “lay hold of Wisdom” means modeling consistent, wise choices and explaining the long-term outcomes of decisions. For students or professionals, it means seeking mentors, applying discernment in study and work, and recognizing that small, wise habits accumulate into lasting happiness.
Cross-References: Proverbs 4:22; Psalm 1:1–3; Jeremiah 17:7–8; Revelation 22:2