Matthew 21:29
He answered and said, I will not: but afterward he repented, and went.
Matthew 21:29
The first son’s response—“I will not”—is a classic picture of initial resistance to God’s call. Yet the verse records a pivot: “but afterward he repented, and went.” This turn highlights the human capacity for change when confronted with truth, guilt, and responsibility. The cultural weight of repentance in Jewish and early Christian thought involves a turning away from self-reliance toward God’s authority. The father’s authority remains the same; the son’s stance shifts. The narrative foregrounds forgiveness, grace, and the possibility of transformation after a misstep. It also serves as a counterpoint to those who outwardly refuse but inwardly respond later, contrasting with the other son’s refusal to go despite an outward “yes.” The verse invites readers to consider how vulnerability, humility, and corrective action reorient life under God’s call.
Theologically, repentance (metanoia) is central: a change of mind that leads to a change of life. Here repentance comes after a wrong initial posture, demonstrating that God’s mercy can restore broken responsiveness. It challenges legalistic expectations that perfect obedience is the only acceptable path. The verse emphasizes God’s gracious inclusivity—people who initially resist can still participate in God’s plan if they turn. It also raises questions about the nature of true obedience: is it primarily about immediate action or enduring transformation? The story shows that genuine obedience is evidenced by decisive, ongoing movement toward God’s purposes, not merely spoken assent.
If you’ve hesitated or resisted God’s call, this is good news: repentance is available today. Name the areas you’ve said no to—perhaps a challenging ministry, a difficult conversation, or a change in habits. Then, with humility, choose to turn and act. Seek accountability from a trusted friend or mentor who can help you stay committed. Celebrate the grace that allows a fresh start; don’t be paralyzed by past refusals. Practical steps: set a specific, doable goal aligned with God’s call; track progress; reflect weekly on what helped or hindered your obedience. Repentance isn’t a one-time moment but a pattern of turning toward God’s will in everyday choices.
Cross-References: Luke 15:11-24; James 4:8; Romans 12:1-2; 1 John 1:9; Acts 3:19