Matthew 18:21
Then came Peter to him, and said, Lord, how oft shall my brother sin against me, and I forgive him? till seven times?
Matthew 18:21
In Matthew 18:21, Peter asks Jesus how many times one should forgive a recurring offense—“until seven times?” The question reveals both human frustration and a desire for clear boundaries. The number seven in Jewish thought often symbolizes completeness, so Peter’s suggestion means “complete forgiveness” or perhaps even more than required. Jesus responds with a radical expansion: not seven times, but seventy times seven. The point is not a literal tally but a call to boundless mercy. Jesus uses a parabolic logic common in his teaching: surpass the typical expectation, reveal the heart of God. The forgiveness of Christ’s followers is to mirror God’s forgiveness, which is patient, generous, and transformative. This instruction sets the tone for interpersonal ethics within the community and aligns with the broader message of the Gospel: mercy over grudges, reconciliation over revenge.
The verse emphasizes God’s mercy as central to the life of God’s people. Forgiveness is not optional but essential to living as a disciple. Boundless forgiveness reflects the character of God and the narrative of the Gospel, where God forgives in order to restore relationship. It also introduces the power of repentance and reconciliation as a dynamic process within community life, where forgiveness is exercised daily, not as a one-off act. The verse guards against legalism and retaliation, highlighting grace as the norm for behavior among Jesus’ followers.
Practically, this calls believers to cultivate a posture of ongoing forgiveness in daily life. For example, if a coworker repeatedly betrays trust, respond with mercy that seeks restoration rather than retribution, while setting healthy boundaries if necessary. It’s not a license to be naive; it includes wise boundaries and accountability. In families, this could mean forgiving repeated hurts and choosing to pursue healing through honest conversation and practical steps. The overarching spirit is grace-driven, reflecting the forgiveness we have received from God.
Cross-References: Luke 17:3-4; Colossians 3:13; Ephesians 4:32; Matthew 6:12; James 5:16