John 21:20
Then Peter, turning about, seeth the disciple whom Jesus loved following; which also leaned on his breast at supper, and said, Lord, which is he that betrayeth thee?
John 21:20
Peter’s gaze shifts to the disciple whom Jesus loved, who is traditionally understood as John. The text notes that this disciple leaned on Jesus at the Last Supper, symbolizing intimate relationship and trust. Peter’s curiosity about this beloved disciple’s fate shifts the scene from personal vocation to the dynamics of others in the community. The question reveals how human nature tends to compare paths or seek reassurance about others’ destinies. Jesus’ response redirects focus from others’ futures to Peter’s own calling: “Follow thou me.” The moment reinforces Jesus’ singular call to the individual believer—stay anchored in the mission he has given, rather than tracking others’ journeys.
Theologically, this underscores the centrality of vocation and the importance of maintaining focus on one’s own discipleship journey. It also demonstrates Jesus’ patience with human curiosity while gently redirecting attention to obedience.
Practically, avoid envy or distraction by focusing on your own walk with Christ. Regularly assess: Am I pursuing my own God-given calling, or am I consumed with others’ paths? When you notice a tendency to compare, redirect to the question: “What does Jesus want me to do today to follow him more closely?” Engage in mentoring or accountability to stay faithful to your unique commission.
Cross-References: Matthew 16:24; Luke 9:23; Galatians 6:4-5; 1 Corinthians 7:17