John 19:26
When Jesus therefore saw his mother, and the disciple standing by, whom he loved, he saith unto his mother, Woman, behold thy son!
John 19:26
Jesus’ response to his mother and the beloved disciple—“Woman, behold thy son!”—transfers responsibility for Mary to the disciple, designated as the one who loves him. This moment shows Jesus’ compassion and intentional care for his mother even in the midst of suffering. The term “woman” is not disrespectful in Jewish culture; it is a respectful address. The commissioning signals the creation of a new family structure under the cross: the mother and the beloved disciple are connected as part of a new spiritual household. John’s Gospel uses this to illustrate the shift from biological kinship to spiritual kinship among believers. The cross thus redefines family in light of faith in Jesus.
This action demonstrates the intentionality of Jesus’ redemptive mission extending to human relationships. It highlights the church’s role as a family sustained by mutual care, especially for vulnerable members like widows or those without immediate kin. The act foreshadows the community’s responsibility to care for one another as members of Christ’s body.
Ask: who in your circle needs “a new family”? Reach out to someone who is isolated—offer practical support, invite them into your home, or help them connect with a faith community. If you have aging family members, consider proactive steps to ensure their care and companionship. In your church or neighborhood, cultivate environments where people look out for one another, modeling Jesus’ compassion for those at the margins.
Cross-References: John 19:25-27; Romans 12:9-13; Galatians 6:2; 1 Timothy 5:1-2; Hebrews 10:24-25