1 John 5:3
For this is the love of God, that we keep his commandments: and his commandments are not grievous.
1 John 5:3
John explicitly defines love for God as obedience to God’s commandments. The famous claim that “his commandments are not grievous” counters a common caricature of Christian obedience as oppressive. John argues that love catalyzes obedience, and obedience manifests love. The commandments are not a burdensome list but a liberated, life-giving way to reflect God’s character. In the context of a community facing pressure from surrounding cultures, this statement encourages faithful adherence to divine instruction without legalistic despair. The “not grievous” nuance signals that true obedience aligns with human flourishing—joyful, sustainable, and enabled by divine grace.
This verse highlights the tenderness and practicality of divine law: love for God translates into a joyous obedience that is life-affirming rather than oppressive. It reframes the purpose of commandments as enabling love and community harmony. Theologically, it counters antinomianism and legalism by presenting obedience as a natural outgrowth of love, not a ritualistic obligation. It also touches on the sufficiency of Christ’s work to empower believers to live out God’s will.
If obedience feels burdensome, reframe it as a joyful expression of love. Start with small, consistent actions—treat coworkers with integrity, speak truth with gentleness, forgive quickly, and pursue justice and mercy. View guidelines for sexuality, honesty, generosity, and service as means of loving God and neighbor, not as legalistic constraints. Prayer for grace to obey, plus accountability relationships in your church or small group, can sustain growth. When tempted to cut corners, recall that obedience is a path to freedom and peace.
Cross-References: John 14:21; James 1:22-25; Romans 6:17-18; Psalm 119:1-8; 1 John 2:3-6