1 Corinthians 9:5
Have we not power to lead about a sister, a wife, as well as other apostles, and as the brethren of the Lord, and Cephas?
1 Corinthians 9:5
Verse 5 asks, “Have we not power to lead about a sister, a wife, as well as other apostles, and as the brethren of the Lord, and Cephas?” Paul points to the right to marry and to bring a wife on travels, a customary practice among some Christian leaders, contrasting with those who remained single or toured with family. The mention of “sister” or wife underscores that even in social life, leaders’ personal arrangements reflect their status and influence. In Paul’s circle, Cephas (Peter) and the brothers of the Lord were among the recognized leaders; Paul notes that apostles could have such partners along on their ministry journeys. The historical backdrop includes differences in early Christian leadership models and cultural expectations about family and travel.
This verse explores the dignity and humanity of leaders. It acknowledges personal life as part of ministry, while not making it a scandal or obstacle to the gospel. The broader theme is the legitimacy of legitimate needs and the dignity of human companionship in ministry. It also serves to normalize diverse arrangements within the early church’s leadership, preventing a rigid standard that could alienate those who followed Christ in different circumstances.
Today, leaders’ family responsibilities and travel considerations matter. Churches should respect spouses and families, ensuring schedules, travel, and financial support honor home lives. For congregants, this is a reminder to extend grace when leaders’ family commitments shape ministry—like family accommodations on trips, or choosing local engagement over long travels out of necessity. It also encourages mentorship and shared leadership, recognizing that a healthy ministry involves partnerships across households, not isolated individuals. Practical wisdom: communicate expectations clearly, protect family time, and celebrate leaders who model a resilient, godly balance between vocation and home.
Cross-References: 1 Corinthians 7:8-9; 1 Timothy 3:2; Titus 1:6; Acts 18:2; 1 Corinthians 7:32-34