1 Corinthians 7:25
Now concerning virgins I have no commandment of the Lord: yet I give my judgment, as one that hath obtained mercy of the Lord to be faithful.
1 Corinthians 7:25
This verse introduces a nuanced judgment about virgins or those not previously linked to marriage: Paul clarifies that he does not claim a direct command from the Lord but offers his own judgment, guided by his authority as an apostle and his mercy from the Lord. He’s balancing pastoral concern with honest pastoral realism. The absence of a Lord’s command here leaves space for wise, pastoral counsel in situations where God’s direct word is not explicit. The context includes questions about marriage, singleness, and the tension between desire for sexual integrity and social expectations. Paul’s stance invites believers to consider their own circumstances with a gospel-informed prudence.
The passage highlights the continuity and openness of Scripture’s guidance: not every scenario has a explicit, binding command, yet believers can trust wise, Spirit-led guidance from leaders who carry mercy and maturity. It emphasizes that God’s primary concern is faithfulness to Him, not the mere performance of human rules.
If you’re unmarried and contemplating marriage or remaining single, there’s room for thoughtful discernment, guided by Scripture, counsel, and conscience. Seek mentors, study Scripture, and prayerfully consider what would honor God in your life. Practical steps: engage in community discernment, maintain integrity, and pursue a lifestyle that honors God whether you marry or remain single. If constraints arise, rely on God’s mercy and guidance rather than pressure from external voices.
Cross-References: 1 Corinthians 7:7-9; 1 Corinthians 7:32-34; Matthew 19:10-12; 1 Thessalonians 4:3-7; Romans 12:1-2