1 Corinthians 7:15
But if the unbelieving depart, let him depart. A brother or a sister is not under bondage in such cases: but God hath called us to peace.
1 Corinthians 7:15
This verse provides a notable exception: if the unbelieving partner departs, the believing brother or sister is not bound in such circumstances. The word “called” points to God’s call toward peace and community life. Paul recognizes that in some cases, the marriage bond breaks due to the spiritual divergence. The governing principle here is peace and freedom to pursue God’s purposes when staying would lead to ongoing conflict or harm.
This verse preserves the integrity of the believer’s call to peace and rest in God’s agenda when relational boundaries become unsustainable. It safeguards believers from a sense of bondage to an unending, unhealthy relationship, while maintaining a strong pastoral emphasis on flourishing in Christ.
If you face an unbelieving spouse who leaves, you are not obligated to remain in an abusive or stifling situation. Seek safety, community support, and wise counsel. Your primary allegiance remains to Christ, who invites you into peace, purpose, and obedience. Practical steps: engage in pastoral mentorship, ensure legal protections if necessary, pursue spiritual growth opportunities, and remain open to reconciliation if circumstances allow, but not at the cost of personal well-being.
Cross-References: Romans 12:18; 1 Corinthians 7:10-11; Matthew 10:34-39; 1 Corinthians 7:11